...from Italy and Around the World
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A gorgeous chuppah courtesy of www.violamalva.it |
Of all of the traditions that define the Jewish wedding
ceremony, the chuppah, or bridal canopy, is one of the most symbolic and important.
The canopy itself is a symbol of God’s love above the married couple as well as
the home that they will now share as husband and wife. The traditional chuppah
(dating back to the 1300’s) features open sky above to acknowledge God as
Creator, who infuses marriage with deep spirituality and cosmic significance,
while the chuppah’s four open sides symbolize the open horizons that the couple
will share in married life together. For all of these reasons it is most
meaningful for Jewish weddings to be held outdoors with blue sky above, and below,
a surrounding panorama of natural creation.
The word chuppah is a Hebrew word, whose origins are found
in the Hebrew Bible in Joel Chapter 2 as well as in Psalm 19. The traditional
cloth canopy and four supporting poles has come to represent the Jewish home.
Additionally, it serves to remind us Abraham’s tent that was open on all four
sides—the world’s first indication of the value of hospitality. During the
ceremony, no chairs or other furnishings are placed under the chuppah to
indicate that more important than possessions, are the people who live inside.
This alone is the foundation of a Jewish home.
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This original chuppah is the creation of a family heirloom. |
As a rabbi who officiates for Jewish and Jewish Interfaith
weddings in Italy, I often help couples incorporate Italian Jewish traditions
into their ceremony. For example,
in the Italian Jewish wedding it is traditional to use a crocheted tablecloth
or bed covering which, after the ceremony, will be used in the couple’s home.
In fact, the Italian phrase, “sotto la coperta,” (or “under the covering”) signifies
the bridal canopy from ancient times. Canopies are often passed from generation
to generation as family heirlooms, while other brides and grooms might create
their own chuppah covering that has its own special meaning.
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Aid workers in Africa made their own from African Kente cloth. |
The basic structure of the chuppah, a canopy supported by
four poles, can be as decorative or as simple as suits the taste of bride and
groom. Festooned with flowers, vines, olive branches or ivy, many chuppot
visually represent the personality of the budding family it houses.
By history told in my family (PETITO), Jewish ancestry in Italy dates back to the first diasporas. For what I've learned, my ancestors sailed from Israel to the south of Italy -- at the time of Bar Kochba diaspora -- where they settled and integrated with the far more pervasive and dominating Christian-catholic culture, but the memory of the original root of my strain was never lost so far. To cross chek this, if you do www.israelpb.com , first you find that Petito is among the most common surnames in Israel, and if you input it in search field, you see that there are Petito in all major cities in Israel.
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Thank you for your attention.
Domenico PETITO
Very interesting details. I am super excited for my own wedding day that is approaching faster. We will have a beautiful country wedding at one of the best LA venues. We have already hired one of the best wedding planners for our special day.
ReplyDeleteMazel Tov and many blessings. Thank you for your comment.
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